Avoid the booty call blues and get the love - and sex - you deserve!
Come on. Admit it. He may not be that into you, but were you ever really that into him? He was never "the one," but you lowered your standards and dated him in the meantime. Why? For any number of reasons: you were lonely, you were horny, you thought dating him was better than being alone, all your friends are getting married - you name it. And before you knew it, you got hung up on the jerk. Go figure.
The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). Now, Dr. Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and author of the smash hit She Comes First, explores the battlefield of sex, hook ups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill, simultaneously arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of...
Biography
Ian Kerner , Ph.D., is a sex therapist —Dr. Drew Pinsky and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books. He contributes regularly to Today and lives in New York City with his wife and two young sons.
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Taking up where the phenomenal bestseller He's Just Not That Into You leaves off, Ian Kerner offers women positive and practical advice on how to break the chains of the unhappy "hook-up" and how to get the love they deserve
This is a confusing time for many women. On the one hand, there's a pressure to be sexually liberated and pursue pleasure for its own sake, and to have sex "like a man." On the other, there are deeply rooted biological and emotional factors that lead women to crave a committed, trustworthy relationship. The result? Many women, writes Dr. Ian Kerner, pursue dead-end relationships, fail to see the red flags and hope a "real" relationship might emerge from a meaningless one, and end up having their false hopes dashed when the guy in question makes it undeniably clear that his intentions are purely sexual and short-term.
As he did in his highly successful first book, She Comes First, here Kerner decodes the way both genders look at sex and transient relationships, arming women with a better set of expectations and insights into turning the "booty call" relationship into something more satisfying. Picking up where He's Just Not That Into You leaves off, Be Honest-You're Not That Into Him Either is a refreshing, prescriptive, and optimistic approach to finding a relationship that really matters.
